I completely forget I had created this community. But I've been burning away for months to write passionate articles. I have so much energy bubbling in my blood and nowhere to bleed.
I'm over kids. You're talking to a young woman who all her life has DREAMED of having a husband to screw (no exaggeration) and a happy 3 child + family to dote over for the rest of her days. I've been warped. I'm over screaming little white brats that pollute the planet. There's enough. We ignorant in that we know there's plenty of screaming children to feed and yet we still want to cram in more so that we can continue our DNA. What is that?! I mean, if the most important thing to you about your child is that you have linked DNA, you're not fit to be a parent. If you want kids so that YOU're satisfied, then someone should remove your womb. Bringing a child into this world requires so many things, if you're to do it responsibly. Wanting to have kids.. ok, that's fine, but if you're not prepared to raise them to be the best they can be, then they're wasting air. They need to KNOW that there are big issues out there, that getting married, having kids and getting rich and that's it is not a divine purpose. There's nothing Godly about working on posessions and yourself and donating a couple of bucks to the Red Shield Appeal when they come knocking and thinking thats your part. In reality, we live in a disgusting world, where the minority of ignorant westerners are sitting back and getting rich off the majorities misfortune.
We don't NEED any more of these people. We need people who are aware of the unfairness of all this, who are willing to sacrifice some of their own so that someone else can have a quarter of what we do. And just popping out kids and only thinking of your own family within your four walls isn't cutting it. I'd go so far as to call this thinking inhumane, greedy and atrocious.
I wanted 3 kids. Heck I wanted 5. I still want 5. I want to only have 2 of my own, tops. Perhaps one. Childbirth is meant to suck, give you 11 kilos of weight and make your boobs saggy anyhow. Once souds enough for me. And perhaps I'll do that. After I've adopted. I want to care for the starving, the ill and the disadvantaged in the world first. Whether it be african, or perhaps of european desent, or even asian or south american, I don't mind. A gorgeous little Indian baby to give a chance at life.. That's so much more meaningful than sucumbing to the temptation to live the westerners dream; that ingrained, contempted life that fits the stereotypical television mould. My father isn't my biological one. But *I* know that doesn't stop him being my Dad. So why would it be so important to me to have blood linked offspring?
I feel so strongly right now that I would liken the notion that children must be related to their parents to lust. Lust for things that are only important to us.
I agree that it's best if kids are with their birth parents if possible. If they are brought into the world though, and it isn't possible, I'd prefer to look after them first. And there will always be plenty of them.